Q. Name a food that reduces sexual desire by 95%
A. A wedding cake…
Many people will find this joke stands somewhere between humour and truth. We want to change that opinion in our book - after all, it IS a joke!
Couples at the very beginning of their relationships often look much happier and satisfied than at the later or "mature" stages. They don't buy books on sexual techniques, they don't see a specialist, they are just so happy to be together that almost nothing can spoil their feelings. They think it is going to last forever and truly believe this. Then they decide to marry and spend their whole lives together or in modern times just to "move in". Then something strange happens: sometimes slowly, sometimes almost lightning fast, desire is replaced by routine. People look for the way out, trying to rekindle yesterday's affection, blaming each other and suffering. Often they decide to break up, unable to find the way out of misery.
This book is written to show you a way out. We want to help people who do not give up to feel that their relationships are still important and can be wonderful again. All those brave and passionate couples do not deserve the situation they find themselves in. But our approach is different than in many other books. We will not concentrate on "who will walk the dog" issues, as those issues were of no importance when you just met. Nobody can deny the fact: if you're happy in bed, you'll cope with all other problems much much better than if you are not. We will try to find out what is happening to affection and desires and how to get them back. When you get them back then small issues will be small again and will lose their destructive momentum.
In this book you will find lots of information about sex - the most powerful stimulant of human life. All couples know the rule: if something is going wrong then sex suffers first. Or maybe when sex suffers then problems come?
We will tell you about history and art, about different approaches to sex. We will tell you about some interesting and effective sexual techniques. The psychology of sexual relationships will also be discussed here to try and get you out of the most destructive situation of any relationships - being bored. And to make your reading more than a study we have included real-life stories our patients or friends have told us over years.
Who should read this book? We believe that it can be useful to any adult, man or woman. Some people might find solutions to their problems, others might just enjoy our stories or get technical hints and knowledge. We wrote this book because we have actually helped many couples out of trouble by simply talking to them and telling what you are about to read now. For the first time we have decided to join everything together and publish it.
The only thing we are asking you to bear in mind before reading any further is that sex is not only a physical act that gives you pleasure, it is something much more complicated and wonderful. It should involve the whole of you, mind, emotions and body, and when it does, we call it love. Unlike physical sex, love is much more complicated but it rewards with more pleasure and emotions. So this book, even if it talks mostly about sexual issues, is in fact talking about love and affection. Have a good read and we believe it will make your love life brighter and better
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